Man Who Catalogued Cemetery Given Highest Geneology Award – Middletown, CT Patch

Man Who Catalogued Cemetery Given Highest Geneology Award – Middletown, CT Patch

As a genealogist, records such as these are invaluable in documenting any number of facts about the people you are researching. I know that over the years I have been researching my family, records such as these have often been the sole means of documenting birth or death dates (even if sometimes only the year), and on occasion, family relationships where couple share a meorial or they are in a family plot/cemetery.

All My Relations

Several years ago, I received telephone call that, in many ways, changed my life. I didn’t recognize the number in the caller ID, but took the call anyway, instead of letting it go to voice mail as I will often do under that circumstance.

I said “Hello”, and the voice on the other end announced “Herbert, this is your cousin, Elsie Allbright Pearson.” She had received my number from a mutual cousin, Annie Mae “Cookie” Tucker, with whom I shared an interest in genealogy and family history.

Over the next several years, Elsie and I would talk several times, sometimes several times a month, catching up on family gossip and new leads on our reclusive ancestors – many of whom fit the descriptor in my bio here on the blog of ‘social brown recluse’ – hard to find, but you know they are there! Her great-grandfather was brother to my great-great-grandmother on one side of our family and her grandfather was a brother to my great-grandmother, making us both second cousins once removed as well as third cousins once removed.

Our joint quest was to find the parents of William Larkin Jones and his sister, Francis Louella Jones Moore Rogers Allbright, a task that we failed to complete, although I have some ideas in that direction.

Sadly for me, I won’t get to share the fruits of my research with her, as Elsie passed away in January 2011, following a lengthy illness and recuperation. I suppose, given that I believe in an afterlife, that she has already found out for sure, but the long-distance service between here and there is cost-prohibitive, so we haven’t talked in a while.

Elsie, thank you for your friendship. I’m missing you greatly right now because I just came across a file on my computer titled “Things to discuss with Elsie.”


This post is dedicated to the memory of  Elsie Allbright Pearson, 1939-2011

Genealogy software

Over at Open Thread Thursday at Geneablogger, they are asking about running multiple genealogy software programs.


There are a lot of them choose from (Cyndi’s List of Genealogy Software and Computers is a comprehensive sampling of what’s available); for many years, I preferred using Personal Ancestral File (PAF) as my primary desktop (laptop) program and then would export a cleaned GEDCOM file from that for use on my genealogy website, LookingBackwards.net, with occasional supplementation from an older version of Family Tree Maker (FTM) (link is to the most recent version, I was using version 7 way back when).


A couple of years ago, I switched from using PAF in favour of FTM 2010. While there are still things about FTM that make me want to scream, I do like the built-in search capability for ancestry.com (as well as other sites, and you can add additional ones to your search menu); PAF was limited to only searching on FamilySearch.org.


I’m still having to export a GEDCOM file to upload to my website, plus make some additional clean-up/corrections to it; my eventual goal is to exclusively use my website for both data collection and display, as each version of Darrin Lythgoe’s The Next Generation of Genealogy Sitebuilding becomes more robust with each new version.